Being “Right” Doesn’t Always Mean That You Are Right

By Maliah Grote

Everyone has been wrong in some circumstances. Maybe you misunderstood, remembered inaccurately, or were confident in something like a math problem that turned out to be completely incorrect. When you realise that you’re wrong, the sensible thing to do is to admit it and move on. Occasionally, some people do the opposite, as if it threatens their existence. Instead of backing down when they are proven incorrect, they become even more confident in their original argument. This is originally known as doubling down. 

Doubling down is when someone continues to defend their case, despite evidence proving that their claim was false. In school, this could happen in a class discussion, between friends, and group projects. Some might even continue to be persistent in their correctness, despite a teacher, textbook, or other reliable source saying otherwise. 

Part of the reason people double down is embarrassment. In many cases, being wrong can be humiliating as well as exposing. No one likes to look uneducated in front of their classmates. Once someone has stated their opinion, admitting they were wrong can also make it seem like they are losing this imaginary argument. As a result, many people, especially students, would rather defend weak logic than confess the truth. 

Another reason is confirmation bias: focusing on evidence supporting their case rather than looking at the evidence that contradicts it. If someone is fully convinced that they are correct, they could be fixated on certain pieces of information rather than looking at the whole picture.

The problem with doubling down isn’t that it’s harmful to one person; it’s that it can turn a simple mistake into a larger debate than intended. Instead of focusing on what is true, it becomes who goes on arguing the longest or who “loses” the argument. This can make unnecessary disagreements between classmates, friends, and others that shouldn’t have occurred in the first place. 

Being wrong is not as bad as everyone thinks. It is a sign of learning, and to learn is to live. Therefore, recognizing a mistake can be another sign of willingness to learn. No one knows everything, and when evidence is stacked against your argument, it is completely normal to switch sides. Sometimes, the smartest response to an argument is knowing when to stop fighting and to accept. 

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