Kavinsky vs. Ambrose: Who is the More Suitable Bachelor?

By Aileen Bedwell and Jane Mackin

Real talk, from the Too All the Boys series, Peter Kavinsky and John Ambrose are both Lara Jean’s romantic interests. But who is better for Lara Jean? Both sides have their respective arguments, Team Peter claiming that “he’s a lacrosse jock with a soft heart,” while Team John believes that “he’s kind, sweet, and matches Lara Jean,” 

Let’s break it down.

The Case for Peter Kavinsky 

Initially, Peter is perceived as the typical popular jock, but the story consistently proves that there is more to him than that stereotype. Somewhere in between the parties and the ski trip, Kavinsky stopped acting and began caring, which is what turns a scheme into a love story. He remembers the little things, shows up when it counts, and gets her to expand her comfort zone.

He’s not at all close to perfect. He messes up immensely especially when his ex, Gen, is involved. But he owns up his mistakes and that’s what allows for the relationship to become sincere. 

The Case for John Ambrose

John Ambrose is the sweet childhood crush who returns in the sequel, P.S. I Still Love You. He writes back to a letter he never expected to get, volunteers at a retirement home, and listens when Lara Jean talks. He loves books, he’s patient, and he’s kind.

Team John likes to play it safe and reliable.

The Verdict

Kavinsky wins, but by a little bit. He’s the pick for those who want humor, growth, and risk, while John Ambrose is the pick for someone who wants a steady, gentle relationship. The point is that Lara Jean’s story is about her learning to trust her own feelings instead of being safe, living her life on the edge, and Peter is the choice that allows her to do exactly that. 

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