By Sadie York
Films have a special way of capturing beautiful moments through the lens of a camera, often resonating with viewers in the most impactful ways. Of the many films I’ve watched, a few particular quotes have shaped the way I internalize thought, as certain lines with the most poetic depth offer new perspectives on perceiving the world around me.
“Is it better to speak or to die?” – Call Me By Your Name
A thought-provoking contemplation regarding the pains of keeping your mouth shut to preserve an artificial peace, or speaking your truth, despite how the repercussions may put a strain on relationships.
Cool Girl Monologue – Gone Girl
Amy Dunne’s “Cool Girl” monologue speaks on the tiring standards women are expected to uphold by society, specifically in the male gaze. In her monologue, the “cool girl” is the image which all men desire in their “ideal” woman, but that girl doesn’t authentically exist as she conforms to the wants of her man. Amy ultimately critiques a flawed societal standard where women should be everything a man wants.
“How is it possible to change so much and not be able to change anything at all?” – Before I Fall
In the continuous cycle of life and death, protagonist Samantha Kingston relives the same day over and over, trying to make amends to the wrongs in her life. Every day, however, always ends in the same tragic way, despite Sam’s efforts to disrupt the pattern in every way possible. This quote speaks to the acceptance of letting go. So many things are left out of our own power, and regardless of the regrets of one’s actions, it’s impossible to go back, so you must learn how to shape the future, rather than alter the past.
“In the end it’s all nice.” – Requiem for a Dream
A reality-shattering line reflecting the film’s message on addiction and deluded dreams. In the pursuit of happiness through substances, the nature of addiction takes place and uproots the characters hopes of a better life, rather leaving them destructed and traumatized. This quote serves as ironic commentary on the brutal ledge of initial dreams, looking over the chasm of a cruel reality, in which many fall into.